Saturday, October 11, 2008

How to Know What is going on in your Date's Head?

When you are out on a date, you earnestly want to know whether the person is genuinely interested in you are not. He/she will go out with you again or not? Dating game has some very interesting unwritten rules. If you pay attention, it won't be difficult to find out what your date thinks about you.

Research studies point out that only 7% of our communication is verbal, the other 93% is nonverbal. Even if we are behaving in a politically correct manner with a date, our bodies can't lie. It seems dating game is an art and attention to details makes you perfect.

Tips & Clues (source: SKYNEWSWIRE)

Men send out the following tips when they’re interested in you, according to Daily and Smith:

* Smiling.
* Extended eye contact.
* Grooming behaviors (straightening their ties, pulling up their socks).
* Upright stance or posture.
* Standing with their chests thrust outward and shoulders back.
(think of a giant preening peacock).
* Ego-driven comments about their successes in life (jobs, cash, their cars).

“He may have one hand in his pocket, with his thumb sticking out, or tuck his thumbs in his
belt,” Smith adds.

As for the so-called “fairer” sex dating game is concerned, look for the following nonverbal cues from a woman:

* Extended eye contact and smiling (just like men).
* Leaning inward or toward you.
* Exposing her neck, hands or palms.
* Flipping her hair (with her hands or a twist of the head) or twirling it playfully.
* Crossing and uncrossing her legs.
* Fondling cylindrical objects like the stem of a wine glass, straw, pen or cigarette.

If you want to be perfect at dating game, You must pay attention to the body language of your date. Understanding your date's body language will surely help you in taking further steps.

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